Saturday, May 30, 2015

Love The Imperfect Man

By Evan Sanders


He is not going to be perfect. In reality he could be totally different than you thought he would ever be. He's going to screw up, fail over and over, and lose himself once in a while. He'll be in doubt, insecure at certain times and disappoint you. His fluidity at times when the deep ocean roars will bemuse you. His quietness when life rips the rug out from him will make you wonder where he went. Did he leave? Did he drift away into some faraway land? He can, once in a while, vanish into his annoyance, disappointment, and tension. He'll suffer and wrench deep within his soul. He will need to leave for a while, going off on his very own journey to answer questions only solitude will truly provide him with. He will have times where he's crack in front of you, cry even, and lose the strength he had because he has been strong in the world too long. He'll go back and forth in his important decisions from time to time and you may wonder if he will ever make them. He will do all those things and plenty more.

But when you have a man, a real man, his compass will always come back true.

If you love the man, he will be your mountain, the unmovable rock in your life whenever and wherever you need him. He's going to be your best and greatest fan, no matter the circumstance or situation, he'll be there for you in any possible way he is able to. If you truly love the real man he will stand in light of your chaos, waves crashing about him, and regardless of how much the blackness of your feelings and emotions appear to test him, he'll always stand firm. If you love the man, he is going to push you to dream big and help you to see the overall picture. He will bring something out in you that you never thought you could have in your life. If you really adore the imperfect man, he will help you bloom and moment by moment, bring you out of your darkest moods into open love. If you adore the man he's going to be your equal, knowing that together you will always be more than you might ever be apart. If you love the man he's going to love you as much as he loves life itself, deep down knowing that you are his joy and he's your light.

He'll want to be your hero, your companion, the king to the queen you are. If you adore the man you will evoke grand passions from him, the deepest feelings he'll be able to mobilize and he's going to share them with you because somewhere way down in his heart he actually does trust you.

When you have a man in your life, he will be certain despite all of this undeniable doubt. He will disappear to find his answers and come back to you again and again. He'll writhe with his calls and then make them, moving forward with conviction and bring you along the ride for the best journey of your life. He will feel his insecurity and doubt, and bring out a confidence that may settle your heart. If you really love the man, he will look at you and not have to say anything, because he can feel into you and already knows what your heart needs. If you love the man, he's going to do anything for you. He will cross oceans for you. He will move mountains for you. It might not seem like you thought it would turn out, but if you adore the man in him, he will bring a love out in you that can light your soul on fire, and together, you can change the future.




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