"Don't be afraid to let go. Every new adventure begins with the ending of another." - The Better Man Project
Why are we so scared to let go?
Honestly, it mostly revolves around the idea that we don't think we will find anything better.
We think that what we experienced in the past is the best possible thing that could have happened to us and that nothing else in the future will come along to replace it.
However, when you really think about it, our lives are a perfect representation of one thing ending and another thing coming into the picture. Every single time you experience a painful ending it creates something completely new.
This is absolutely true in relationships. Many times you have to walk away from someone and the pain feels unending. But the reality is that there was probably someone before that person who you had to heal from as well.
Understand that someone new will come into your life and heal the wounds that you are carrying. They will soothe your soul in ways that the other person could not.
And if the relationship you get into ends...another will come after that.
And another after that...
Eventually, someone will come into your life who refuses to let you go. They will want to be with you forever and will fight for you when you need to be fought for and support you when you need to be supported.
That will be one of the best days of your life.
So until that day, you have to keep to your faith and understand that life is a grand series of challenges and victories for those who really decide to live.
Life will always give you precisely what you need vs what you think you want.
It might not always be the prettiest lesson in the world, but it's exactly what you need in order to grow and move forward with your life.
If you let your life just become one big lesson, you will constantly learn and never have to worry about always getting it right.
That's a very good life. That's a very happy life.
Trust that.
Why are we so scared to let go?
Honestly, it mostly revolves around the idea that we don't think we will find anything better.
We think that what we experienced in the past is the best possible thing that could have happened to us and that nothing else in the future will come along to replace it.
However, when you really think about it, our lives are a perfect representation of one thing ending and another thing coming into the picture. Every single time you experience a painful ending it creates something completely new.
This is absolutely true in relationships. Many times you have to walk away from someone and the pain feels unending. But the reality is that there was probably someone before that person who you had to heal from as well.
Understand that someone new will come into your life and heal the wounds that you are carrying. They will soothe your soul in ways that the other person could not.
And if the relationship you get into ends...another will come after that.
And another after that...
Eventually, someone will come into your life who refuses to let you go. They will want to be with you forever and will fight for you when you need to be fought for and support you when you need to be supported.
That will be one of the best days of your life.
So until that day, you have to keep to your faith and understand that life is a grand series of challenges and victories for those who really decide to live.
Life will always give you precisely what you need vs what you think you want.
It might not always be the prettiest lesson in the world, but it's exactly what you need in order to grow and move forward with your life.
If you let your life just become one big lesson, you will constantly learn and never have to worry about always getting it right.
That's a very good life. That's a very happy life.
Trust that.
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