Saturday, October 13, 2018

Practices And Jewish And Interfaith Rabbi

By Angela White


Many may talk one out of having an interfaith union but many find themselves unable to do so because of the love felt for their partners. A Jewish and interfaith Rabbi understands the problems that may arise from a marriage of this sort and is there to guide the couple from the start and more importantly how to have a wedding they both will enjoy. There is much to know and there is no place other than starting on the Internet and searching up answers to questions unanswered.

One may find that learning about the laws, customs and practices is a little overwhelming so it is best to keep things simple and get to know the basics. For one, knowing which foods are permissible by Jews to be consumed is a life long study should one feel that one wants to delve deeper into this. For some knowing the basics is enough and that is okay especially when inviting Jews who are friends and family to the occasion itself.

There is reason to the customs practiced such as the groom stamping and breaking a glass after the prayers have come to an end. This is done in remembrance of both temples that were destroyed many years ago. It is to say that life is fragile and love too and that every waking moment each partner should focus on the other and enjoy their lives together.

When it comes to meat dishes, only animals that chew the cud and are cloven hoofed are deemed as kosher. Seafood is not allowed at all so this discludes dishes such as prawns, lobster, crab and shrimp amongst the many others that are found in the world. If it is a fishy meal that is required then only fish that have fins and scales may be eaten.

This may seem like a problem but in fact it is quite simply overcome by using a kosher caterer and one that is recognised by a Jewish Court of Law. There are many foods that may not be consumed by Jews and these are alluded to in the Torah or Five books of Moses. These laws are strictly adhered to in most Jewish homes so it is important that on the day itself, these are brought into effect.

It is best to get started as soon as possible and investigate the various options that be. It is a day that will be one of the most special days in a lifetime, so it is best to have ducks in a row well before the occasion. Other questions that may arise will surround the wedding dress. Typically this is the same as any other wedding and is not something that requires attention regarding rules.

It is best to allow oneself some time. Getting started on a search for an interfaith Rabbi should be done months in advance. Some may suggest some possibilities and it is a worthwhile following each lead.

It is best to take time in making decisions. Give oneself as much time as possible. It will be the best day of a lifetime and is there to be enjoyed to the utmost.




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