Monday, January 28, 2019

Funerals And Using A Rabbi Funeral

By Betty Murray


It is never a pleasant situation finding oneself in when someone close passes away. A Rabbi funeral will be needed if the person was Jewish and this involves a wide range of to dos in order to get it done the proper way. There is a lot that must be abided by and a step by step process that needs doing to ensure that it goes off without a hitch.

Much is needed to organize in an event such as this. The body is washed by designated people in the community and this is considered to be a duty that is highly regarded. The body is watched from time of arrival at the cemetery so that the soul can be rest assured that the body is being cared for.

The watchman who sits with the body can be a family member or close friend and it is customary to recite verses from the Book of Psalms which were written by King David millennia ago. The body is prepared and is placed in a modest pine coffin in readiness for burial. As guests arrive the family is kept separate and is allowed a little time to reflect. The coffin is put on a plinth ready to be escorted to the gravesite.

Guests eventually arrive and it is time for the ceremony to begin. Family members are asked sometimes to say something on behalf of the deceased. Apart from this it is customary to wrent clothing that the mourners are wearing. This is a custom that has been handed down through the ages so if this is customary it is best to wear and old shirt or scarf for women.

After a words are spoken remembering the life of the deceased, pallbearers are called upon to escort the coffin. This list can be made up of family and friends and it is considered to be a great honor. It is an emotionally charged time of the ceremony as everyone gets to remember that part of life they were involved in with the deceased.

Apart from this it allows friends and family time to reflect on the life that was. The grave itself must be dug to certain specifications as dictated by law. Once at the site the coffin is lowered without delay in so keeping with practices of this nature. Further prayers are said and it is covered as soon as possible without delay.

Sons or Fathers are called upon to say a prayer called Kaddish in remembrance of the departed. The process of the whole ceremony can be discussed with a Rabbi who is well versed in ceremonies such as this. One should consult with the community as to who to get in contact with when this sort of need arises.

Consulting with the right people is a must. If there is not a Jewish cemetery in the area then one must consult with the community. A way forward is always found.




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