Having a one on one conversation with your partner before you start shopping can make your purchasing decision a breeze. Before you step into the stationary shop to choose your custom anniversary invitations, talk over key decision points with your spouse. With the right preparation, you can design beautiful invitations for your special day with less expense, stress, and time than if you started shopping before you talked.
A stationary designer who sells custom invitations is an expert, but also a salesperson. It is their job to give you what you want, but they will probably suggest their most expensive offerings because of quality and style. Because salespeople work on commission, they will try and help you make a quick decision so that they can serve other customers quickly. This can make decisions stressful if you aren't prepared.
Have a mental picture of what your event will be like. The style of your invitation should match the party itself. Would you rather have a formal catered bash, or a casual potluck with intimate friends? There's no wrong answer, but whatever you choose, let your invitation be an appropriate cue to your guests about what kind of party is in store.
Find photos online or in magazines that reflect the vibe you are trying to create at your party. Share these pictures with the salesperson, so he or she can suggest the right elements for your invitation. From paper stock to design details, leverage the designer's expertise by clearly communicating the feeling you are trying to achieve.
You and your spouse can also work together to write a short list of words that describe the anniversary party you will have. Words like fancy, formal, relaxed, warm, elegant, lively, and other such adjectives will help you and your salesperson agree on a great stationary design. Try to come up with a list of five to ten guiding words.
Have a conversation about your budget before you meet with a salesperson. If you and your spouse agree that you are willing to spend a specific maximum amount per invitation, you will be able to work with the stationary expert to meet your goals. If you're not sure what you are allowing yourselves to spend, it can be confusing and frustrating for everyone involved.
You and your spouse should decide on a code phrase to discretely let each other know if you need to discuss something in private, away from the salesperson. It might turn out that this isn't the right vendor for you, or that you need to have a one-on-one conversation away from the store environment. Something along the lines of "I need to go check the parking meter" will give you a quick exit, without creating an embarrassing moment.
Designing unique invitations with your romantic partner can be a fun celebration in itself. Let your stationary choices reflect the special bond you share, with both of your tastes and personalities in the mix. The shopping process can be a great chance to collaborate and make something you're both proud of.
A stationary designer who sells custom invitations is an expert, but also a salesperson. It is their job to give you what you want, but they will probably suggest their most expensive offerings because of quality and style. Because salespeople work on commission, they will try and help you make a quick decision so that they can serve other customers quickly. This can make decisions stressful if you aren't prepared.
Have a mental picture of what your event will be like. The style of your invitation should match the party itself. Would you rather have a formal catered bash, or a casual potluck with intimate friends? There's no wrong answer, but whatever you choose, let your invitation be an appropriate cue to your guests about what kind of party is in store.
Find photos online or in magazines that reflect the vibe you are trying to create at your party. Share these pictures with the salesperson, so he or she can suggest the right elements for your invitation. From paper stock to design details, leverage the designer's expertise by clearly communicating the feeling you are trying to achieve.
You and your spouse can also work together to write a short list of words that describe the anniversary party you will have. Words like fancy, formal, relaxed, warm, elegant, lively, and other such adjectives will help you and your salesperson agree on a great stationary design. Try to come up with a list of five to ten guiding words.
Have a conversation about your budget before you meet with a salesperson. If you and your spouse agree that you are willing to spend a specific maximum amount per invitation, you will be able to work with the stationary expert to meet your goals. If you're not sure what you are allowing yourselves to spend, it can be confusing and frustrating for everyone involved.
You and your spouse should decide on a code phrase to discretely let each other know if you need to discuss something in private, away from the salesperson. It might turn out that this isn't the right vendor for you, or that you need to have a one-on-one conversation away from the store environment. Something along the lines of "I need to go check the parking meter" will give you a quick exit, without creating an embarrassing moment.
Designing unique invitations with your romantic partner can be a fun celebration in itself. Let your stationary choices reflect the special bond you share, with both of your tastes and personalities in the mix. The shopping process can be a great chance to collaborate and make something you're both proud of.
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