Wednesday, July 5, 2017

How A Muslim Matchmaking Service Helps Young Women

By Kenneth Patterson


Most people have wandered through the very shady world of online dating, and as a rule women have simply avoided being a part of it. Women have mostly found that the men on these sites are married, or at the very least living with someone, and as such many of the female profiles on them are not real. However, a particular group of females have found good fortune on a Muslim matchmaking service.

In the religion of Islam, marriage is held as a cornerstone of all civilization. As such, these sites are not the usual experiments in hook-ups or even casual dating that most of us are familiar with. Marriage is always the anticipated outcome when these people meet up.

Many who follow the Islamic faith are cut off from others who share their beliefs. Additionally, the world itself harbors distrust and fear, making it even more difficult for some to even be open with their peers about their religious perspectives. For these reasons, families have been actively involved in matching couples in Islam, and this makes simply meeting someone very weighty for both the man and woman.

In this world of shady online dating sites with fake women and married men, it is possible that these religious communities have created an island in the sea. Not only that, but it offers the ability to choose in a way that many Islamic women are traditionally denied. It provides an opportunity for two people to meet without having their entire extended family involved.

While families are still very distrustful of these sites, they cannot deny the success that is taking place when it comes to getting their children married. There are still dangers associated with meeting a person from an online source, and that risk is not going away. The Internet has made it possible for dangerous people to disguise themselves, and everyone must be on their guard.

Safety is always going to be a concern when people meet online, and these dating sites are no less risky than any others when it comes to that fateful first meeting. The Internet allows a person to be dishonest about who they are and what they intend in a variety of ways. However, with new services such as video chatting, these dangers are somewhat lessened by the fact that they get to meet before their meeting.

Followers of Islam in Western countries have found these websites are sometimes the only method available for meeting others without family involvement. The same is true to a lesser extent of Jewish families, who often require their children to marry within their faith. Having sites that specialize in a certain group of people has shown much greater promise than simply searching for those of a particular religion on traditional sites.

In a society where women have few opportunities to really choose for themselves, such sites allow them to have a say in whom they might marry. Many Islamic women have never even given much thought to the sort of man they might prefer. However, such services allow these women a vote in how their own lives turn out, and increases their chances at happiness.




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