Friday, July 14, 2017

Tips For Finding A Companion For Single Muslims

By John Collins


Meeting a right partner to cherish and love for life through marriage is important in Islam. For many single Muslims, this is a challenge. Mostly due to their surrounding environment. And the fact that they are not allowed to date. Makes it more difficult. They must observe utmost purity to get a partner who will marry them. With the few tips explained below you can find the right partner.

Be respectful. This applies to both men and women. When you meet with a potential partner, handle yourself with respect even after you realize that you might not like the person that much. Show respect and listen to what they have to say. Engage actively in the conversation. Present yourself as husband or wife material to that person. You never know they might hook you up with someone you will like.

Get out and mingle with your age mates. Put yourself out there, with the modesty of course. Get involved in activities where people of different sexes are involved. Meet new people, be open to those engaging you in conversations. Do not be too strict and serious. Laugh at jokes and take every moment lightly. Maybe your spouse is waiting for you out there, and they could be watching.

Do not lose hope. Have patience, practice it as much as you can. Avoid being haste in making your decisions. Being patient as they say pays. At times things might get tough for you. Do not despair have faith and hold on. As long as you are searching, you definitely will find the right person for you. Someone who will love and support you.

Do not do it alone. Getting help from someone else on such matters of marriage is inevitable. Mostly involve your parents in your quest. Let them know your intentions and the type of person you are looking for. They might drop a few clues for you to look into, which will go a long way in helping you find a partner.

Online dating. There are so many sites to choose from online. This is a good platform since most of the people there are also seeking for partners. Find those supporting Muslim dating. Be active on the site and have a presentable profile. Remember this helps you get into contact with potential partners. Avoid committing before engaging in meeting with the person physically.

Find a good chaperone. In Islam, you are not allowed to meet with someone of the opposite sex and be alone. You need to have a third party. Therefore, as you decide on picking a chaperone, pick the right person. Do not let the person you are meeting be intimidated by that person. Always seek the advice of your potential partner when bringing along a chaperone.

By following the tips given, a single Muslim can increase by far their chances of finding a partner for life. Despite the many challenges that will come up in the process, they should stay positive and never lose faith. Marriage is highly recommended in Islam, and everyone should seek to fulfill this part of the faith with modesty.




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