Do you wonder if that guy you like has romantic feelings for you? Are you afraid to ask him out but there are times when you are sure that he likes you. At other times, you're just not sure if he's interested in you. How can you know for sure if a man is attracted to you? What are some of the signs that the man you are dreaming about has romantic thoughts about you?
Men can be a bit of a mystery sometimes. Most men are taught from the time that they are very small to hide their emotions and to suppress what they feel from outsiders. This doesn't mean that a man's feelings are completely hidden. Often a guy will express his emotions without even thinking about it. He may struggle with how he feels about you or he might not even know how he feels but his body will give you clues to what lies beneath the surface.
First, has he ever touched you or do you remember a time when you remarked to yourself that it seemed like he was an affectionate kind of guy. Maybe he touches your arm or your shoulder when he's talking to you. Perhaps he has touched your back as you walk through a door in front of him. A man's desire to connect with you is difficult to hide and for some men this is a way to be affectionate during the beginning stages of a relationship without the risk. If he's touching you then there is a very good chance that he is attracted to you.
Even though there are people who tend to touch more when communicating with others, all of this is a good sign that he likes you. It could be that he comes from a culture that is known for being more physically affectionate or that his family brought him up to behave this way but, the fact that he feels comfortable enough with you to touch you is very good. To make sure, observe how he behaves with other women and see if you are unique in how he treats you. Does he touch other women. If not then you can be sure that he's attracted to you. Return the favor and help to build that non-verbal bond with him by touching him also.
Take notice of how he stands when he is talking to you. Is he facing you? Does his chest face towards you or do his feet point in your direction. A man's feet point toward what he wants so if his feet are pointing towards you then you are what he wants. If his chest is pointing towards you then he is open with you and he feels safe with you. He's not hiding anything and he is attracted to you.
Now, there are men who might not face you directly when talking to you. It could be that the man that you are attracted to was hurt in a past relationship so he's a little hesitant to be completely open at first. It's also a little difficult to always face someone when you're talking if you're sitting on a couch or at a bar. It's also awkward to not face someone when you're eating dinner with them and they're directly across the table from you. Use your own judgement and test it out sometime when he has the option of turning away or facing you directly. If he faces you directly with his feet pointing towards you then you know that there's a very good chance that he's attracted to you.
The next time you meet the man of your dreams and you're alone, take a look at his eyes when he greets you. Do his eyes have a sparkle to them when he smiles at you? His body's reaction to seeing you will be unmistakable if he is falling in love with you. When a man begins to fall in love he will smile and his eyes will sparkle when he sees you. He will be unable to control this reaction so keep an eye out the next time you see him and you'll know for sure if he's attracted to you.
You might think that if he looks down or appears to avoid eye contact with you that your relationship is done for. The opposite might be true, actually. Shy guys and men who have been hurt in a relationship are often cautious about revealing their feelings. They will sometimes look away or look down as a sign of submission when they come face to face with a woman that they find attractive. Don't worry though, as you grow closer to each other he will begin to trust you and you'll get to see those sparkling eyes all you want.
If any of these signs sound familiar or you have seen these signs of attraction in the man of your dreams then that is indeed good news. If not, it could be that you simply weren't looking closely enough to see these signs. The harder he tries to hide the fact that he is attracted to you, the more apparent these signs will be. He can deny his emotions but he body simply won't allow him to hold his feelings inside completely. Be patient and know in your heart that he is interested in you. Take things as they come and understand that most guys don't like to talk about feelings. This doesn't mean that they don't exist. Men will only share their feelings with a woman that they truly trust.
Men can be a bit of a mystery sometimes. Most men are taught from the time that they are very small to hide their emotions and to suppress what they feel from outsiders. This doesn't mean that a man's feelings are completely hidden. Often a guy will express his emotions without even thinking about it. He may struggle with how he feels about you or he might not even know how he feels but his body will give you clues to what lies beneath the surface.
First, has he ever touched you or do you remember a time when you remarked to yourself that it seemed like he was an affectionate kind of guy. Maybe he touches your arm or your shoulder when he's talking to you. Perhaps he has touched your back as you walk through a door in front of him. A man's desire to connect with you is difficult to hide and for some men this is a way to be affectionate during the beginning stages of a relationship without the risk. If he's touching you then there is a very good chance that he is attracted to you.
Even though there are people who tend to touch more when communicating with others, all of this is a good sign that he likes you. It could be that he comes from a culture that is known for being more physically affectionate or that his family brought him up to behave this way but, the fact that he feels comfortable enough with you to touch you is very good. To make sure, observe how he behaves with other women and see if you are unique in how he treats you. Does he touch other women. If not then you can be sure that he's attracted to you. Return the favor and help to build that non-verbal bond with him by touching him also.
Take notice of how he stands when he is talking to you. Is he facing you? Does his chest face towards you or do his feet point in your direction. A man's feet point toward what he wants so if his feet are pointing towards you then you are what he wants. If his chest is pointing towards you then he is open with you and he feels safe with you. He's not hiding anything and he is attracted to you.
Now, there are men who might not face you directly when talking to you. It could be that the man that you are attracted to was hurt in a past relationship so he's a little hesitant to be completely open at first. It's also a little difficult to always face someone when you're talking if you're sitting on a couch or at a bar. It's also awkward to not face someone when you're eating dinner with them and they're directly across the table from you. Use your own judgement and test it out sometime when he has the option of turning away or facing you directly. If he faces you directly with his feet pointing towards you then you know that there's a very good chance that he's attracted to you.
The next time you meet the man of your dreams and you're alone, take a look at his eyes when he greets you. Do his eyes have a sparkle to them when he smiles at you? His body's reaction to seeing you will be unmistakable if he is falling in love with you. When a man begins to fall in love he will smile and his eyes will sparkle when he sees you. He will be unable to control this reaction so keep an eye out the next time you see him and you'll know for sure if he's attracted to you.
You might think that if he looks down or appears to avoid eye contact with you that your relationship is done for. The opposite might be true, actually. Shy guys and men who have been hurt in a relationship are often cautious about revealing their feelings. They will sometimes look away or look down as a sign of submission when they come face to face with a woman that they find attractive. Don't worry though, as you grow closer to each other he will begin to trust you and you'll get to see those sparkling eyes all you want.
If any of these signs sound familiar or you have seen these signs of attraction in the man of your dreams then that is indeed good news. If not, it could be that you simply weren't looking closely enough to see these signs. The harder he tries to hide the fact that he is attracted to you, the more apparent these signs will be. He can deny his emotions but he body simply won't allow him to hold his feelings inside completely. Be patient and know in your heart that he is interested in you. Take things as they come and understand that most guys don't like to talk about feelings. This doesn't mean that they don't exist. Men will only share their feelings with a woman that they truly trust.
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