End your search for your other half.
What?!
This is probably the complete opposite of what you have been taught throughout your entire life, but take a second to hear me out. When you are desperately searching for your other half, you are implying that you aren't a complete and whole person in the first place. If our true happiness lives in seeing our lives and dreams fulfilled, then why are we setting ourselves up for failure by suggesting that we are always going to be incomplete until someone else arrives into our life?
So as an alternative to searching for your other half, look for someone who can be your teammate.
Look for someone who challenges you to be something greater than you've ever been before. Look for someone that believes in you and your vision, who is there for you when times get tough and who comes to you when they want support as well. Look for someone who will walk right by your side, not your missing piece.
Stop searching for your missing piece.
The one and only one guarantee about this life is that things are going to change. Even the best relationships in the world are going to end and you are going to have to go on living your life. You will have to rise up to the challenges that losing loved ones bring you and be ready to continue on your path even though you may be grieving. This is a reality of life and it will never change. When you are a whole person, you can feel and hurt deeply and continue being yourself.
When you can work on yourself in life and find somebody who will do the same, then you can meet together as two complete lovers who appreciate and cherish each other. Isn't this a far better way of going through life than thinking you are incomplete without someone there? Doesn't this open you up to major amounts of growth and the power to reach your full potential?
So find the person who will be your teammate and who will love and support you no matter what.
What?!
This is probably the complete opposite of what you have been taught throughout your entire life, but take a second to hear me out. When you are desperately searching for your other half, you are implying that you aren't a complete and whole person in the first place. If our true happiness lives in seeing our lives and dreams fulfilled, then why are we setting ourselves up for failure by suggesting that we are always going to be incomplete until someone else arrives into our life?
So as an alternative to searching for your other half, look for someone who can be your teammate.
Look for someone who challenges you to be something greater than you've ever been before. Look for someone that believes in you and your vision, who is there for you when times get tough and who comes to you when they want support as well. Look for someone who will walk right by your side, not your missing piece.
Stop searching for your missing piece.
The one and only one guarantee about this life is that things are going to change. Even the best relationships in the world are going to end and you are going to have to go on living your life. You will have to rise up to the challenges that losing loved ones bring you and be ready to continue on your path even though you may be grieving. This is a reality of life and it will never change. When you are a whole person, you can feel and hurt deeply and continue being yourself.
When you can work on yourself in life and find somebody who will do the same, then you can meet together as two complete lovers who appreciate and cherish each other. Isn't this a far better way of going through life than thinking you are incomplete without someone there? Doesn't this open you up to major amounts of growth and the power to reach your full potential?
So find the person who will be your teammate and who will love and support you no matter what.
About the Author:
It's time to live the best version of your life you possibly can. Evan Sanders is a professional life coach at AYKME Life Coaching and writes articles about this daily journey of life. Dive into these Life Changing Quotes to inspire you to live your best life. Also, if you have a chance, check out these Strong Women Quotes to find that perfect teammate.
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