We've all been there.
Your love is being abused. You feel horrible about yourself. You know that you should walk away from that person who is taking advantage of you but you can't muster up the courage to do it.
For everyone who has been there, they are faced with some of the hardest realities of all - the absolute need to walk away and respect oneself.
There's this really interesting art in leaving people who don't treat you well, respect you enough to reply to you, or don't act like you mean much to them.
How do you say goodbye to someone without losing yourself, burning bridges, or disrespecting the person across from you? Tough question. But if you lead from your heart and speak your truth you can hardly go wrong.
The middle ground is difficult to find sometimes.
At what point do you hold your head up high and walk away from the relationship?
Your heart. If you feel deeply in your heart that you have given everything that you have to offer, given the person across from you chance after chance and they still aren't willing to give back to you, walk away. Walk away as fast as you can because that person is going to continue to take advantage of you for as long as you are around.
When you know what you're worth, you won't put up with other people treating you badly.
This doesn't at all mean that doing this isn't a painful process. It can be incredibly painful.
If you refuse to remove toxic people from your life you will end up being dragged down by their negative attitudes and it will tear apart your life in the long run.
Have the courage to walk away.
Of course, there's an art form in being able to give people second chances and really knowing when enough is enough. Truth is, you really have to dig into your heart when you are in these moments and let your inner wisdom speak.
However, it's important to always remember exactly what you are worth and what you are looking for in your life. If you negotiate for anything less, you can really get the bad end of the deal.
If you want your life to start taking off, you must first invest into yourself and understand what makes you truly special. Without understanding your own magic how could you ever really understand the magic of others?
Live a life full of love and cherish the opportunities that come your way. Don't settle for anything less.
Your love is being abused. You feel horrible about yourself. You know that you should walk away from that person who is taking advantage of you but you can't muster up the courage to do it.
For everyone who has been there, they are faced with some of the hardest realities of all - the absolute need to walk away and respect oneself.
There's this really interesting art in leaving people who don't treat you well, respect you enough to reply to you, or don't act like you mean much to them.
How do you say goodbye to someone without losing yourself, burning bridges, or disrespecting the person across from you? Tough question. But if you lead from your heart and speak your truth you can hardly go wrong.
The middle ground is difficult to find sometimes.
At what point do you hold your head up high and walk away from the relationship?
Your heart. If you feel deeply in your heart that you have given everything that you have to offer, given the person across from you chance after chance and they still aren't willing to give back to you, walk away. Walk away as fast as you can because that person is going to continue to take advantage of you for as long as you are around.
When you know what you're worth, you won't put up with other people treating you badly.
This doesn't at all mean that doing this isn't a painful process. It can be incredibly painful.
If you refuse to remove toxic people from your life you will end up being dragged down by their negative attitudes and it will tear apart your life in the long run.
Have the courage to walk away.
Of course, there's an art form in being able to give people second chances and really knowing when enough is enough. Truth is, you really have to dig into your heart when you are in these moments and let your inner wisdom speak.
However, it's important to always remember exactly what you are worth and what you are looking for in your life. If you negotiate for anything less, you can really get the bad end of the deal.
If you want your life to start taking off, you must first invest into yourself and understand what makes you truly special. Without understanding your own magic how could you ever really understand the magic of others?
Live a life full of love and cherish the opportunities that come your way. Don't settle for anything less.
About the Author:
Evan Sanders is a fearless adventurer, professional life coach and writer. He is on a mission to incite the hearts and minds of those around him and help them live their best lives. Read more of his work at The Better Man Projects and throw yourself into these Life Is Too Short Quotes for some more inspiration and motivation.
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