Tuesday, April 7, 2015

Advantages Of Speed Dating Los Angeles

By Aimee Schwartz


Speed dating refers to a formalized process done by organizations to help people meet a large number of new people and match them in the end. The origin of this practice is attributed to the Jewish culture where it was used by single people to find marriage partners. Some people prefer these events as meeting places compared to others such as bars. Speed dating Los Angeles is therefore gaining popularity among many other countries.

This practice is convenient for single people because everyone participating is out to meet someone and thus nobody can feel like they are really out of place. It saves time as people are placed into different age groups in order to enhance their compatibility; in addition to this, the event is designed in such a way that introductions are not necessary. Unlike many meeting venues, people will have enough time to talk comfortably.

The thought of rejecting someone to their face is dealt with as the match making process is done after the event is over. To avoid a participant getting stuck with another for too long, the organizers have time limits for the sessions. There are couples that find out that they are good for each other earlier in the events and they are allowed to sit together until it comes to an end.

On the other hand, the feedback concerning the matches is delayed and the participants must wait for a few days to get it. Most speed dating events do their matching at random and the participants will have a chance to meet different types of people that they might not normally meet in a club. This eliminates the non-verbal cues that people use in bars to select each other before talking.

Advance registration is a requisite for both male and female participants. Depending on the organization that is carrying out the event, the participants are rotated to short dates that last from three to eight minutes. To signal the end of each session, the organizer rings a bell or a blows a whistle for another one to start.

At the end of it all, all participants are expected to submit a list of the people they would like their contact information to be given out to the organizer. They will carry out the match making process and forward the contact information to the concerned. The exchange of this information is however restricted to avoid having to reject a suitor to their face.

The requirements necessary for such events vary from one organization to another with most setting their target on communities and groups like the LGBT, Christians and the polyamorists. Graduate students are a common group that entail young single people who are out to make life relationships that will last. They mostly are organized in places like the United Kingdom, Canada and the United States.

A certain study shows that most participants select their matches within the first three seconds of meeting indicating that the first impression counts. Furthermore, issues such as religion, lifestyles and previous marriages hardly play a key role as expected. With advancement in technology, this form of dating is also there but has a disadvantage of people not actually meeting.




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