Saturday, July 7, 2018

Grieving And Using A Rabbi Funeral

By William Stewart


In Judaism there are set laws regarding mourning and burying the dead. A Rabbi funeral requires a qualified Rabbi to officiate when burying someone of this religion. It is a sad time when losing a loved one or close friend and it is believed and practiced that the sooner the burial takes place the better.

Sitting Shiva as it is known comprises the first seven days of a mourning period. This is when foods are eaten such as eggs and bagels to signify the continuity of life and that the soul has passed on from this world and has been received in the next. There are many mitzvahs of connections that a Jew does daily in bringing themselves close to the creator.

The total grieving period lasts up to eleven months where everyday those close to the deceased such as sons of a father that has passed away, says a prayer called Kadish. This is done three times a day until the eleven months has passed. This requires sons or worse enough fathers that have lost a child, to attend synagogue three times a day for morning, afternoon and evening prayers until the time has elapsed.

Losing someone close is never easy even though it is understood by many that the soul continues its journey in the next life wherever that may be. It is just the shell of the body that is left behind but it is believed that the soul goes to Gan Eden or the Garden of Eden or paradise should it have done good on earth as opposed to going to a place of shame if the opposite is true. It is believed also in Judaism that when the task of a person is complete then God collects the soul and brings it to himself for a review on the life spent on earth.

It is the soul that continues its journey into the next world after its work is done in this one. This is spoken about often even in non Jewish circles especially for those who have had NDE experiences. Near death experiences are common in the world and one should take comfort in this that the soul has gone on to a better life after doing good in this one.

Apart from this doing all one can to do what is prescribed by Jewish Law helps one to mourn and to overcome the grief that is felt. Sometimes it takes longer to get over the death of a loved one and this is understandable as it leaves one with a gaping hole that is difficult to get over. But with time things do get easier and one eventually learns to live with it.

For those in mourning this is a comfort too and something that is done without question. Losing someone is hard enough. When this is so following a system of mourning makes it that much easier as it helps one to grieve in the best way possible.

So it is with this in mind that it is time to do just that. Be patient. All eventually will feel okay.




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