Wednesday, May 21, 2014

After College Meet Is Difficult

By Minnie Whitley


It is easy for one to get a date while in college than after school. This is because in every class one attends they will always find themselves sited next to one. Things change immediately one start working; they realize that after college meet is difficult. Most of the men and women one spends most of the time with after school are the workmates and close neighbors.

Finding your love in university is easier because you are surrounded with a lot of people every time. Also the college environment is favorable; in the library, dining halls, football games and flat parties you always find yourself with one sitting next to you. This makes one feel with have a wide variety to choose from.

Life changes when one leaves university. Unlike school where one used to engage in a variety of activities in a day, life starts revolving around work and home. One has limited variety to choose from because you spend most of the time with workmates.

The transition after college can be depressing for some people. It can be difficult to adapt to work home rat race. One wakes up, they go to job, in the evening they go home, take their supper, then go to bed. They have to repeat the same routine the following day. This kind of a lifestyle means that you rarely have time to meet women and whenever one does the options are limited. This is due to the fact that pool of women they choose from is limited from those they meet at work place and close neighbors.

As people approach thirties they realize that finding their love outside college is far more difficult. People become sad that they find it next to impossible to get someone they can stand leave alone love. Some say there is no one good left out there. The few people you meet have stupid ideas, horrible taste and shitty qualities. While in school one was worried about maintain love but now in the real world it is difficult to get it.

Majority of people that are single are not happy though they will never disclose it. The truth is nobody envisioned that they would be single in their lives. The most exciting moments of human beings are when they find true love. When you go through such times it is time to reflect on our lifestyle. May be going out more often and other recommendable tips would help.

There are several tips that one can adopt to help come across their love especially if you are so busy. Some these include; online dating, outdoor activities like taking a walk, throwing parties can be a creative way of meeting your date and pursuing your passions. At no time should work run your life engage in sports and games among others.

It is interesting that most people you come across after school have a hidden motive. Men are after ladies for fun while women want the guys they meet to marry them. Due to this when people meet they find it difficult to understand each other and at the end of the day each walks away confused and disappointed.




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