Sunday, August 25, 2013

Effective Strategies On How To Get A Girl To Like You

By John Gibbons


For a lot of men, the very idea of being able to make a girl like them seems kind of like some secret skill that they just don't have a clue about. It doesn't have to be all that complicated, though. I get why it can seem that way at time, especially if you have listened to a lot of traditional dating advice that men get that always seems to be focused on buying her things and fawning over her as if she was perfect in every which way. All of those things are really ineffective and a lot of the time, detrimental if you really want to be able to make a woman like you.

So you need to be self confident if you want to have the winning ways with how to get a girl to like you. So in order to get a girl to you, you should always have a composed an a casual mindset. Moreover, you should not be too desperate towards one girl. If she likes you in general, that is always a plus. But if she does not like you, always try to move on and find someone better. There are plenty of nice girls in this world. So, you should not stick around the same girl.

You should always be on a high and never look needy or desperate to find a girl. Try to make friends with as many girls as possible. Try to date a whole lot of girls, as this will help to get a command over situations. This will not make you desperate to hunt that special girl as you will always have lots of options around you. Moreover if she sees, that other girls are getting attracted to you then she will too get attracted in general. This is the psychology of every girl. So, you should know how to play with their minds.

Girls are social beings - if you want to know another great tip on how to get a girl to like you, be social. If you are trying to impress a girl show her that you are social and she won't get bored being around you. She needs to know that she will have a great time meeting your friends or her friends while the two of you start dating.

We've all been frustrated when a meet that ONE girl that drives us nuts. She's just so hot, funny, charming, and sexy that we just can't contain ourselves. Yup, I often just don't know what to do. Having dealt with this so many times I made a promise to myself I would find a proven way to get girls to like me. I'm not claiming to be a dating guru or player but here's the good news. These techniques work for everybody so you won't have to wonder about how to get a girl to like you!

How to get a girl to like you is as simple as knowing what girls want. Unfortunately, no one has been able to discover what girls want, so getting a girl to like you may not be so simple. How ever, here are several tips that will help you to get a girl to notice you.A girl will like you if you like her, or least the things that she likes. One of the primary things that a girl likes is herself. Most girls like to talk about themselves, their interests, their friends, and their hobbies. If you are interested in the same things, you will have plenty of things to talk about, and we all know that girls like to talk. Ask a girl questions about herself, her interests, and her friends and she will immediately find you likable.

Girls tend to like guys who are somewhat mysterious to them. Engage girls in conversation, but don't let them know everything about you, especially if you have a prison record or warrant out for your arrest. There is some truth to the old cliche of girls being attracted to the 'strong, silent type'. This should be easy to pull off if you follow tip number one above.

The experts say that girls like to hang out with guys who are funny. Most guys interpret this to mean telling jokes and being the life of the party is how to get a girl to like you, but this is not necessarily the case. Seeing the humor in everyday situations, always having a positive attitude and a smile on your face will attract more girls than a guy trying to attract attention to themselves. (See tip one above)

The dating industry is a big business. There are thousands of products, and millions of people buy them every year. But don't expect girls to automatically be interested in meeting you if your approach is off regardless of what pheromone cologne you might use. The problem is no approach works all of the time, and no approach that has success when used by one guy will always produce the same result with someone else.

Be a good listener. Often a girl likes to sit and talk, not necessarily communicate, just talk. A girl likes a guy who will sometimes just listen to her thoughts, her day, and her dreams. Caution: when a girl talks about her problems, it does NOT mean she wants you to solve them, she just wants you listen and empathize with her. She is not looking for advice or solutions; she just wants to share with you what is going on in her life. (Refer to tip number one).In summary: a girl likes someone who will listen, is attentive, is a good listener, is sensitive, and quiet. Therefore the answer to the puzzle: "How to get a girl to like you" is to be a girl, or at least be able to think like one. If all else fails, just being there to give her a hug when she needs one, and she will think you are the best guy in the world.




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