Thursday, October 23, 2014

Dating Hong Kong -Guide To Meet Her Family

By Meng Li


If you have been dating a Hong Kong girl for quite a while and things are going pretty good. You also feel she might be your Miss right. Despite the comments about pitfall about dating Hong Kong girls, you don't have the usual problem.

Until one weekend she comes to ask you, "Hey baby, can you meet my parents next Saturday?" When you heard about this, you feel panic. You don't know what to do and who you can turn for help. Actually today we are going to show you some tips. So no need to be panic and keep reading!

In fact, it won't be quite that terrible. I am sure you heard some stories and myths. But your girl's parents are not that scary. All they want is you are a reliable man that can take care of their daughter in the future. So calm down and do some preparation in advance. You will be fine!

How to present yourself: You don't want to give a bad first impression, right? So follow this step by step. Clean and smart clothes are needed. If you don't have it, you should go shopping with your girlfriend. Your girlfriend's parents are likely to judge you based on your first impression.

Career: You might be wondering what kind of things you should talk during the meal. Talking about your career is always the best option. I understand not everybody can be in the professions like law or finance. But, the key is to convince them you have a good career and more importantly, you have the ability to make money and support the family if you marry to their daughter in the future.

Show your respect: Although you need to be confident during the meeting, you should show respect to parents and other relatives at the event. It's very possible that many relatives or friends will join the event to see the foreign boyfriend. Also remember don't drink too much otherwise it's easier to say something stupid and make mistakes. You do not want to leave an impression that you are an alcoholic.

In the end, it's OK for you to feel a bit nervous if it's your first time to meet an Asian family. It's a very important step for your relationship with your girlfriend. I am sure you will feel more comfortable when you have more chances to meet her family in the future. Good luck!




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