The doubt and frustration after a breakup can be maddening. Wondering if you still have a chance of getting back together with your ex can be confusing. Often what your ex says and what they do seem to be in opposition. They might tell you one thing yet you have this nagging feeling that they are still in love with you. You feel that there is still hope. You want to get back together but every attempt to reunite is met with opposition.
You are probably having a difficult enough time with your emotions and your life at the moment. Trying to unravel what is going on inside the mind of your ex is almost impossible. You need to know, though. You want to know if there is a spark of love left in their heart. Can you fan that flame and make that love burst to life once again? Knowing that your ex is still in love with you can give you that hope and help you to remain patient as your ex works through their emotions and feelings. These signs will tell you everything you need to know about what lies in their heart.
While it might be a simple coincidence or your ex might just being friendly, if you hear that your ex has contacted some of your close friends or family then there's a chance that they still feel something for you. If your ex misses you or if they are looking to find out how you are, touching base with your family or friends is the next best thing to contacting you directly. It all might seem very innocent but you know in your heart that something is afoot. Your ex is having a difficult time and they want that connection with you even if it is through a third party.
You might be tempted to give your friends or family members the third degree when you hear that your ex contacted them. Resist this urge and instead remain cool and calm. Keep your private emotions and thoughts to yourself. It might be tempting to drop a few hints to your mutual friends that you miss your ex or that you are hoping to get back together. This will only make things uncomfortable for your friends and family. Make your ex contact you directly if they want to know what is going on in your life. Leave your friends and family out of your private matters until the day comes when you let them know that you're back together with your ex.
Next, has your ex tried contacting you directly to ask you a mundane question or to set up a meeting so they can return your belongings? If your ex misses you and still has feelings for you, they might reach out to you directly to hear your voice and satisfy that urge to connect with you. As much as you miss your ex and the daily contact that you once had, your ex is still a human being and taking something as important as an intimate relationship away will cause them to feel some loss. This is perfectly natural.
Before you go running around the house dancing for joy, understand that you still need to be cool and calm. You need to hide your emotions and avoid talking about the breakup, how sorry you are, how you want to get back together or anything negative having to do with what happened in the past. Your ex probably already knows that you want to get back together. All of this might be a way for your ex to start that process of reuniting with you. Any talk about getting back together will scare them off, though. Getting back together is all about connecting and falling in love again. Keep your cool and avoid talking about it. Just let it happen.
Lastly, if you are still friends with your ex on some social networking sites or you find yourself looking at their profile to find out what is going on in their life, you might be surprised by what you find. If your ex is posting pictures of what they're doing or status updates about how wonderful their life is then they very well might be missing you. Even photos of someone new that they're dating or how happy they are will be signs that they are trying too hard to prove to the world that they are happy without you.
It can be dangerous to spy on your ex using their social networking profile. Sometimes it's better to live in ignorant bliss. Be sure that you're in a positive mood and understand that there is always a logical explanation for whatever you find. You might be tempted to become hurt or angry if your ex appears to be having a great time without you but keep in mind that often when someone is trying to convince the world that everything is fine, there are problems just underneath the surface. People often cover deep wounds with partying and acting as if things are just a little too wonderful to be true. An ex that posts picture of themselves with a new partner or a status update saying how happy they are is usually on the brink of falling apart. Be sure that you have your life together since this is your cue that they are about to implode.
Wait for any or all of these signs to appear in your life and you can be sure that your ex misses you and your love. You may be tempted to contact your ex or even voice your opinion about what they appear to be doing. Avoid this temptation and instead let your ex come to you first. Let your ex be the one that caves in. Let your ex be the first one to say I love you. Let everything happen naturally but be prepared for that moment when it arrives. Work on your self-confidence and get back to being that person that your ex fell in love with in the first place and you stand a very good chance of getting back together with your ex.
You are probably having a difficult enough time with your emotions and your life at the moment. Trying to unravel what is going on inside the mind of your ex is almost impossible. You need to know, though. You want to know if there is a spark of love left in their heart. Can you fan that flame and make that love burst to life once again? Knowing that your ex is still in love with you can give you that hope and help you to remain patient as your ex works through their emotions and feelings. These signs will tell you everything you need to know about what lies in their heart.
While it might be a simple coincidence or your ex might just being friendly, if you hear that your ex has contacted some of your close friends or family then there's a chance that they still feel something for you. If your ex misses you or if they are looking to find out how you are, touching base with your family or friends is the next best thing to contacting you directly. It all might seem very innocent but you know in your heart that something is afoot. Your ex is having a difficult time and they want that connection with you even if it is through a third party.
You might be tempted to give your friends or family members the third degree when you hear that your ex contacted them. Resist this urge and instead remain cool and calm. Keep your private emotions and thoughts to yourself. It might be tempting to drop a few hints to your mutual friends that you miss your ex or that you are hoping to get back together. This will only make things uncomfortable for your friends and family. Make your ex contact you directly if they want to know what is going on in your life. Leave your friends and family out of your private matters until the day comes when you let them know that you're back together with your ex.
Next, has your ex tried contacting you directly to ask you a mundane question or to set up a meeting so they can return your belongings? If your ex misses you and still has feelings for you, they might reach out to you directly to hear your voice and satisfy that urge to connect with you. As much as you miss your ex and the daily contact that you once had, your ex is still a human being and taking something as important as an intimate relationship away will cause them to feel some loss. This is perfectly natural.
Before you go running around the house dancing for joy, understand that you still need to be cool and calm. You need to hide your emotions and avoid talking about the breakup, how sorry you are, how you want to get back together or anything negative having to do with what happened in the past. Your ex probably already knows that you want to get back together. All of this might be a way for your ex to start that process of reuniting with you. Any talk about getting back together will scare them off, though. Getting back together is all about connecting and falling in love again. Keep your cool and avoid talking about it. Just let it happen.
Lastly, if you are still friends with your ex on some social networking sites or you find yourself looking at their profile to find out what is going on in their life, you might be surprised by what you find. If your ex is posting pictures of what they're doing or status updates about how wonderful their life is then they very well might be missing you. Even photos of someone new that they're dating or how happy they are will be signs that they are trying too hard to prove to the world that they are happy without you.
It can be dangerous to spy on your ex using their social networking profile. Sometimes it's better to live in ignorant bliss. Be sure that you're in a positive mood and understand that there is always a logical explanation for whatever you find. You might be tempted to become hurt or angry if your ex appears to be having a great time without you but keep in mind that often when someone is trying to convince the world that everything is fine, there are problems just underneath the surface. People often cover deep wounds with partying and acting as if things are just a little too wonderful to be true. An ex that posts picture of themselves with a new partner or a status update saying how happy they are is usually on the brink of falling apart. Be sure that you have your life together since this is your cue that they are about to implode.
Wait for any or all of these signs to appear in your life and you can be sure that your ex misses you and your love. You may be tempted to contact your ex or even voice your opinion about what they appear to be doing. Avoid this temptation and instead let your ex come to you first. Let your ex be the one that caves in. Let your ex be the first one to say I love you. Let everything happen naturally but be prepared for that moment when it arrives. Work on your self-confidence and get back to being that person that your ex fell in love with in the first place and you stand a very good chance of getting back together with your ex.
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