Stop hunting for your other half.
What?!
That probably does sound completely contradictory to anything you've ever heard before, but searching for your "other half" unfortunately does indicate that you are not really a complete person right off the bat. It suggests, that you do not have everything inside you already that you need to live a happy life. Isn't life about truly seeing ourselves and who we are deep down within?
Instead, look for the person who is going to be your teammate. Look for someone that challenges you to be something greater than you've ever been before. Look for someone that believes in you and your vision, who is there for you when times get tough and who comes to you when they need support as well. Look for someone who will walk right by your side...not your missing piece.
Because in life, things always appear and vanish. Even the amazing relationships that pass the test of time eventually end and you have to go on living your life. The person that is going to be there for you for a long period of time would also wish that you would not be broken to pieces when they're gone. So be a whole person who can love another in total. Be the best version you may be for yourself and allow another to dream with you on the way to change the world.
When you can work on yourself in life and find someone who will do the same, then you can meet together as two whole people who appreciate and value each other. Isn't this a far better way of going through life than thinking you are incomplete without someone there? Wouldn't this open you up to major amounts of depth and the facility to reach your actual potential?
Find your teammate, you will certainly be much better off. These relationships bloom.
What?!
That probably does sound completely contradictory to anything you've ever heard before, but searching for your "other half" unfortunately does indicate that you are not really a complete person right off the bat. It suggests, that you do not have everything inside you already that you need to live a happy life. Isn't life about truly seeing ourselves and who we are deep down within?
Instead, look for the person who is going to be your teammate. Look for someone that challenges you to be something greater than you've ever been before. Look for someone that believes in you and your vision, who is there for you when times get tough and who comes to you when they need support as well. Look for someone who will walk right by your side...not your missing piece.
Because in life, things always appear and vanish. Even the amazing relationships that pass the test of time eventually end and you have to go on living your life. The person that is going to be there for you for a long period of time would also wish that you would not be broken to pieces when they're gone. So be a whole person who can love another in total. Be the best version you may be for yourself and allow another to dream with you on the way to change the world.
When you can work on yourself in life and find someone who will do the same, then you can meet together as two whole people who appreciate and value each other. Isn't this a far better way of going through life than thinking you are incomplete without someone there? Wouldn't this open you up to major amounts of depth and the facility to reach your actual potential?
Find your teammate, you will certainly be much better off. These relationships bloom.
About the Author:
Evan Sanders is the author of The Words Of Encouragement, a website dedicated to bringing the best quotes, motivational content on the web, and blogs all to one place. Time to move on from an old relationship, start working on yourself, and diving into what life has to offer? Dig into these quotes about moving on for some great perspective.
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