Saturday, August 9, 2014

How To Have A Successful Long-Term Relationship

By Alex D White


Human relationship is one of the most important aspects, which have played a remarkable contribution in the evolution of civilized world. Relationships are the result of positive feeling toward others; it may be love relationship, family or work relationship. Most people usually desire to have a long love relationship. However, building relationship is an art and for a relationship to be successful, some principles should be followed.

Trust is one of the best practices, which are very important for a successful relationship. There should be a mutual understanding between the lovers so that they peacefully resolve the minor disputes which happen more frequently. If you come to know about your fault during the dispute, do not feel ashamed to apologize. If you get angry for some reason, do not make use of abuse language; instead make your partner realize their fault.

There are two things important in relationships: feelings and real facts. Feelings come from the heart and they are based on your love relations. Feelings are not always according to the real situations prevailing currently. Therefore, the differentiation between real situations and feelings is very helpful in making the picture clear in resolving the problem.

Your relationship is a result of the emotions that come from different parts of your body. Sometimes your heart might take the problem in a different perspective from your mind. Sometimes you need to say something, however you may not say it as you wanted to leading to confusion. Thus, it is crucial to co-ordinate the various voices from the different parts of your body and discover the appropriate cause of the problem and solution for the issue.

Partners who have mutual understanding are more likely to make the relationship successful. A compassionate partner better understands the other partner. Whenever there is a dispute, compassion plays an important role in solving the problem. A compassionate partner always uses the right language to solve the problem.

There should be a feeling of unity among partners in a relationship. The voice of unity always leads to happiness. The sacrifice of one or both of the partners saves the relationship from disaster. Whenever possible the appreciation of your partner should be done to make the environment joyous.

Change is important in the development or evolution of anything in the world. So the change in yourself and relation as a whole should be undertaken when you feel the necessity for this. The activities make your partner happy and feel loved should be undertaken daily. Activities like going shopping together or for picnics are likely to strengthen a relationship and make your partner feel like you are one.

Any relationship demands the sharing of lives, joys, sorrows and lots of other activities. Thus, the partners should see each other with fresh ideas taking training from past, feeling happiness in present and fantasizing about future activities. You need to leave blaming or accusing one another and then try to resolve the issues with mutual understanding.




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