Saturday, November 23, 2013

3 Ways To End Your Sadness After A Breakup

By Russell Marks


Do you find yourself sitting around your house sad and upset about your breakup? You wish that you could simply snap out of it but your heart is broken. All you can think about is your ex. All you want is to hear their voice, see their smile and know that they love you again.

While most of the world is going to think that you've gone crazy, spending time in your garden, planning your garden and harvesting food from your own garden adds joy to your life. You grew that food. You nourished that food with compost you created yourself. You planned every aspect of your organic garden and as time passes your garden becomes more healthy and self-sufficient. You did it all with your own two little hands, a little knowledge and a desire to grow healthy food for yourself and your family.

If you want to improve your mood quickly, try some laughter therapy. Laughing can help you to feel better about life even if you are laughing about something external to you and your life. Funny movies or visiting a comedy club might be in order if you look in the mirror and have a difficult time smiling. If you just don't want to go out in public, which is common when you're depressed, rent a few good movies, curl up on the couch with some good comfort food and prepare yourself for a night of laughter. Search for some funny videos online and take your mind off of your troubles.

Exercising does great things for your body and your attitude also. Whether you work out regularly or not, going for a walk or a run is a good way to get your heart pumping. Your body will release a flood of chemicals that will improve your mood and you'll feel better about yourself and your situation. If nothing else, you will improve your physique and your ex will notice this when you see them again if you continue with a good exercise regimen.

You can create that same kind of connection. You had that connection with her at one time. Sure, things went a little sideways in your relationship and it's quite possible that at this point she isn't talking with you but all that can change. You can turn things around and get that second chance. You can move her emotionally and help her to come to the conclusion all on her own that you're the best thing that ever happened to her. You can show her that you're a great guy, her best friend in the world and the one that truly makes her happy.

While much of the world may scoff at you from saving egg shells and scraps leftover from dinner, you know that what you're doing in creating your organic garden is not a chore. Spending time working in your garden is not labor. Savoring fruits and vegetables that you raised yourself is about so much more than saving money or spending time outdoors. Your garden feeds your soul and nourishes you heart. Your garden becomes a part of you and your life. As it grows and flourishes, so do you. Organic gardening is an addiction and a madness that we embrace once it gets in our blood and our life that makes us whole.




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